December 17, 2017

Oh if I got a pound of every time I heard a woman say "I cannot have a Boudoir photo shoot, I am not photogenic enough!" I would not have to run this business anymore (well, I probably still would because I love my work but that is beside the point)! I don't ever attempt to talk women into having a Boudoir photo shoot but here is what I usually say to those ladies:

Your assumption that you are not photogenic, what do you actually base that on? The snaps that your friends and family took with their mobile phones? Or the last images of you which a promotional...

December 10, 2017

When you search for inspirational images for your Boudoir photo shoot, many photographs which are displayed could easily be part of a La Perla lingerie campaign - the models look fit, confident and stunning wearing very little. I understand that most of my clients feel intimidated and think they do not have the 'right body' for those photographs. Here is what I would love to tell all women who worry about looking perfect:

Okay, so you may not have a flat stomach, or perfectly symmetrical boobs (only about 10% of women do), or super slim thighs, or a face wi...

December 3, 2017

There are a fair few of my clients who are concerned that they might be too shy for a Boudoir photo shoot. They would love to have a sensual photo shoot but are worried that they might not be able to pull it off because they are not very extroverted or outgoing. Here is what I would love for those self-proclaimed wall flowers to know:

You do not need to be a super sexy vixen to have a Boudoir photo shoot! You are not less of a woman because you don’t feel comfortable in suspender belts and giving the photographers those bedroom eyes.

Let me tell you about a...

November 19, 2017

Many of my clients are concerned about their age. Some believe that just because they are not in their 20's anymore, they are too old for a photo shoot. Here is what I would love to tell these women:

I get where you are coming from, I really do. Most women we see that have their photographs professionally taken (i.e. models) are super young and fit and have the perfect figure. But that's not you and thank God it isn't.

You may have those wrinkles around your eyes, you may not have a super flat belly because you gave birth to your two children and you may ev...

October 22, 2017

I have written an earlier article where I pointed out that every woman’s definition of “sexy” is different (which is the reason why I have my consultation calls to find out what her vision of Boudoir is). Some interpret it in a suggestive way, others prefer a seductive interpretation and few want to show it all – it all depends on what you feel comfortable with. Nevertheless, a question I get asked very often is how a woman can get images with that “Here I am, come get me!”-kind of sexy look (you know the one I mean). There are two parts to that answer:


October 8, 2017

Some of my clients have asked me about anonymous Boudoir photo shoots - they want to have sensual images of themselves but they do not want for anybody else to be able to tell it is them. Sometimes they think it is more artistic if the face is not shown or just the outline of their body is in the images.

I get it. I felt the same way about my very own Boudoir photo shoot. Prior to my shooting I was convinced that all I wanted out of the session was one photograph which I could blow up, hang on the wall and people would look at it and think: "That is a beaut...

September 24, 2017

Recently I received a message from a husband inquiring about booking a Boudoir photo shoot for his wife as a birthday present. He also asked whether I would possibly do a couples shoot for him and his wife together.

Firstly, I told him how thoughtful and truly personal of a birthday present I thought it was to surprise his wife with a Boudoir photo shoot experience.

Secondly, I advised him that a couples shoot might possibly not be the best option for a first Boudoir photo shoot.

Don't get me wrong, I generally love couples shoots and I genuinely believe th...

September 10, 2017

Frequently my clients are unsure if now is the right time in their lives to have a Boudoir

photo shoot or whether they should have done it earlier or if they should wait a little longer. Answering this question is difficult because it depends on the individual woman and it is a very personal decision. Objectively speaking though it depends on how comfortable you feel in your own skin, regardless of your age.

Women in their 20's tend to have a Boudoir photo shoot for one of two reasons: either because they want to commemorate their youthful bodies or because...

August 27, 2017

Another good question many of my clients ask me in regards to the outfits they choose to bring to their Boudoir Photo Shoots is what type of lingerie to bring (see my guides) but more specifically if they are to bring push up bras or not. 

I am always honest with my clients and say what comes to my mind first: You are beautiful the way you are - be yourself and don't try to be anyone you are not! But this question goes deeper than just what outfits you choose for your Boudoir Shoot. For some it is a question of principles of self-presentation but for others...

July 16, 2017

I get that questions a lot. And rightfully so - women want to know how much skin they have to show to be sexy enough for a Boudoir photo shoot.

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